school and get to be president of the united states, right? so i think we've really got to be willing to look at the kinds of mistakes people make with an open heart, an open mind and make choices about how we respond to those mistakes in a way that honors their humanity, their dignity and is based in awareness that, yes, as a society we need to be safe. we need to honor people's basic human rights to be able to live in a community that is safe and secure. you know, a child growing up in a crime-ridden, violent community who has to worry about, you know, bullets flying through the air near her school? her human rights are being violated because we have not provided her a safe of, secure environment in which she can live and grow. so we've got to hold each of us individually accountable, um, and do so in a way that honors each other's basic humanity can and basic human rights, assures that we create safe and thriving communities, caring communities. but we can't simply resort to shame and blame and get caught up in a wave of punitiveness that m